How do you perform a lap dance for your boyfriend or husband?

I recommend having him shirtless or taking his shirt off in the process of the dance so that you can touch his nipples with your nipples and use your tongue on his body in a very sensual way and he can feel the sexy texture of whatever you're wearing and then whatever you're not wearing as you slide down his chest as mentioned before and just the feeling of your touch on his bare skin in general. Another variation is instead of making him wear like regular jeans or something which can be very uncomfortable for you to do grinding kind of sexy bouncing moves once you have your panties off and are still doing the dance but instead get some fabric that is impossibly sensual like a dance of silk and satin fucking and just lay it across his crotch so it feels really amazing for both of you as you wiggle around on him.

Put a full length mirror across from the lap dance chair, so you both can watch while you dance. This is a super sexy way to go about it because you can make sure that what you're doing looks sexy as hell and it's hot to watch yourself dancing for him in the mirror and he'll really like it too.

Remember to go slow. It's sooo much sexier than moving fast, whether you're having sex, dancing for him, or doing naughty things to each other before his rock hard cock is deep inside you. This is the case because you can actually feel every nanosecond of the pleasure, as opposed to creating friction between the two of you and your bare skin if the movement is too fast. It's hard to sometimes get guys to understand this but I recommend for this adventure that you stay in control and tell him to slow down because you want to feel everything he does to you in slow motion and when it feels so amazing and it's getting you off like crazy he will hopefully get the hint and start doing that more and you can tell him things like I love the way you touch me I love the way it feels when you touch me and go slow or fuck me and go slow and so on and it really is out of this world good to do it that way!

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Have fun and enjoy pleasuring each other! = Yummy!

do a spa day for yourself with the full service shower pedicure manicure all those things make sure you're totally and properly shaving everywhere is nobody wants to look at beach spiders and a spa day will make you feel expensive and beautiful. Wear your hair down or pinned up at the sides as you can play with him with your hair and flip it around giving him a sexy smile as you do it.

Hope that helps!💜

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I recommend not taking your shoes or thigh high stocking off because they will continue to look really sexy after the dance while he's f*king you.

Make sure you pick a chair that allows him to place both feet flat on the floor , with a 90 degree bend at the knee, so his upper legs (lap) are parallel to the floor, giving you the perfect seat to be able to grind and wiggle and bounce on his crotch. Also its best if the chair doesn't have arms, so you can sit on his lap facing him, as well as facing away from him. A banquet chair works really well.

And here's an awesome move for you to do during the dance. It's a version of ride a little horsey like from when we were kids, remember bouncing on the knee as somebody sang the song ride a little horsey, go to town….and so on, but this is a whole different kind of riding. LOL you'll spread his knees a little bit preferably from on your knees in front of him and roll up with your face right at his crotch so it's simulating you getting ready to give him a blowjob but instead you'll dance for a minute sexy and slow in between his legs and you will want to turn around probably bend forward at the waist and wiggle your ass in his face a little and then slide your pussy down his chest and sit on his lap facing away from him. You will Definitely want to incorporate rolling your hips as you dance. I can't tell you how many porns I've seen and people are just in out and out and out but rolling your hips looks and feels so sexy for both of you , think Movement Like You Are riding a horse English saddle, using the movement that you do when the horses doing a cantering gait. You can watch a YouTube video on what that's like if you don't understand what I mean. My point is that this motion not only looks amazingly sexy but it will create OMFG good feeling for both of you when you're having sex and for the lap dance so that's the motion and then the way you're going to sit on his lap facing away from him for this movement is facing away from him sitting on his crotch with your legs spread, so they're sitting on the outside of his legs. wrap your lower legs from the outside in, and hook your feet around the inside of his lower legs just below the calf muscle where they will naturally sit, so that you're suspended without your feet touching the ground while being securely anchored on to his lap in this position, at which point you can bounce and grind and wiggle and roll your hips while sitting with your pussy and ass on, his crotch, and you can lean back against him with your upper body to one side of the other of his face so he can look down and see your beautiful tits and pussy over your shoulder and in the mirror. At this point he will probably have a rock hard cock on him, but still has pants on so it's not going in you yet. I would use this towards the end of the dance because I would take his hands and bring them around in front of you and make him start touching your pussy and playing with it and putting his fingers in you while you both watching the mirror. it feels absolutely amazing and it will look incredibly hot and sexy to both of you in the mirror. You can go from that lean back position and then you can also put your hands on his knees which will be on the inside of your own thighs when they're wrapped around his legs as described and you can lean forward as well depending on how it feels best when his fingers in you, but before that he shouldn't be allowed to touch you until you put his hands there and put his fingers in you. you can also pull his fingers back out of you and taste them and make sure that he can see you do this in the mirror by looking around your shoulder so you have to lean kind of to one side a little and this move is best done as you're laying back against his chest to one side of the other of his face. you'll taste amazing and it will be a big turn on for both of you to watch in the mirror. then put his fingers back in you you'll be dripping wet by this time as well make sure to show your pleasure by making appropriate noises and tell him how amazing his fingers feel inside you. Another variation to do is to put your hand on top of his hand once you put his fingers in you and rock your hand back and forth so that you can control his fingers going in and out of you and it will put delightful pressure on on your clit at the same time his fingers are going in and out of you which is an an extremely delicious feeling to that and you're in control still which will be super hot to him and will give you awesome finger banging pleasure = OMFG GOOD!

Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.

Watch the movie Showgirls and practice the stripper lapdance moves, while wearing the shoes you plan to wear when you do the lap dance for your man.

Be sure to have two or three songs picked out ahead of time so that you know they're going to be super sexy and you don't have to be in a hurry to get it done in one song in fact I recommend creating a sexy playlist ahead of time so the whole thing will be awesome music to play and dance and have sex while listening to it. Make sure that you create the perfect sexy scene ahead of time with lots of candles lowered light and if possible sexy fabric on the bed or at least soft sheets of your choice of color so that it creates an entire scene of Sacred Space in your bedroom get rid of any clutter make sure there's no TV or harsh lighting and allow yourself plenty of play time together. Also a good idea to have some water available to drink because it's very difficult to give a blowjob and deepthroat later if you aren't hydrated enough so having it handy already so you don't have to leave the room isn't great idea for every sexcapade Adventure.